Accepting Seld to Join Back with Your Twin Soul

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Karen: “Why is it so difficult for twin souls to reunite?”

Pirellious: “There are many lessons to be learned by the both energies of the twin soul connection (masculine and feminine) that have been designed to help both twins awaken to their spiritual nature and realise all is One.

The twin souls must overcome the ego which has been designed to create limitations that eventually the twin souls must overcome; they must build spiritual consciousness into their being."

Karen: “How can we build this spiritual consciousness?”

P: “Through learning to trust in the intuitive knowing feelings that their guardian’s are sending them. Their hearts and souls always know the way deep down; it is whether the individual will have the courage to trust in it and put aside social conditioning that has taught many that physical aspects of the world are truer than things that cannot be seen with the eye.

Spiritual consciousness is learnt through trusting in oneself and in the higher forces that are helping the union to occur. One must surrender the ego’s belief in “control” they have and accept that control is greatly in Source’s hands. The control we have to a certain extent happens before birth when we sign spiritual contracts that decide best how to help us strengthen in our spiritual lives."

Karen: “Are there any other ways to speed up reunion?”

P: “Well trying to “speed tings up” is not the right direction to take for it implies cutting corners and rushing lessons. All will come about in perfect timing. Your soul will know deep down when reunion will occur for your soul has already agreed upon the time. In order to reunite, the twins must consciously work on understanding and accepting self.

So many twin souls get caught up in convincing themselves that it is the other who is at fault and needs to change. However, if one is at complete peace with SELF, then an understanding will be reached that happiness comes from oneself and peace cannot be pinned on another. To put all responsibility of happiness on another’s actions is to deny responsibility for self; it is to look for another to fill in an emotional void. This is a clear signal that one is not happy with self and therefore concentrates on blaming the other. It is just a defence mechanism and all twin souls go through it. it is not a “bad” thing, but a necessary process."

Karen: “Yes but some twin souls do behave very badly.”

P: “Yes and sometimes one twin will be too accommodating or will lash out in a way that seems innocent out of defence but is just as vicious, no matter how passive-aggressive."

Karen: “What do you mean by too accommodating?”

P: “When they have been hurt by the other twin and keep going back for more. It is not that I am saying one should run from their twin soul, block them out or punish them, it is that one must forgive but sometimes realise they shouldn’t have to lay down in front of a steamroller. It is about not being a “doormat” as you put it on earth.

One must be ACCEPTING, forgiving but also wise. Don’t let yourself be hurt over and over out of unconditional love. Love unconditionally, but don’t put up with mistreatment to the point of disrespecting yourself.

In order to reach self-love and acceptance, you have to learn to say no at the right times, but also not behave stubbornly out of pride. Be true to your heart – do what feels right in respecting yourself. This is one of the hardest lessons.

You have learnt this lesson very well. It took you a long time to understand, but you have got there and now experience such wondrous peace."

Karen: “Yes there were many years where I would go back for more and more drama and emotional abuse. But at the time I felt I had to be around him whatever because I feared that if I gave up on him then he would give up on me and I would never see him again. that was back in the days when I thought this connection was about romance and passion though. I tried to keep us together because I thought we were supposed to get married.

But back then I didn’t realise that I could only associate this to romantic love because I was naïve and didn’t know this unique kind of love existed. I suppose I boxed it into the “romance” category because I didn’t really understand what this “new love” experience was about. I had no defined category for it at the time.

But then I trusted and decided I needed to respect myself and concentrate on making myself happy. I wasn’t even sure if I liked (twin) as a person, but I knew I loved his soul more than anything. I knew we were connected in this special way, but I was killing myself through trying to force things. Looking back, I can see that even if we had got together in the way I thought I wanted, we would not have been happy. We aren’t supposed to be lovers in the physical world. We are One in soul and this goes far beyond the earthly realm. In trying to limit our love through boxing it into the physical, I was ignoring the real purpose of our unity in soul. But I can see now that this was just a lesson in making me see.

In eventually giving up trying to force things to happen, I slowly gave up this fear of facing the reality of our soul connection and thus I rapidly came to the freedom that this Joining creates. Through realising that I had to follow my intuition, your messages and accept that life is MUCH more than the physical, I surpassed it’s boundaries and our soul’s moulded back together.

Perhaps on some level he knew this all along…."

P: “Yes he did on the soul level, but in ego, he was resisting because of the fear too. But yes, he knew deep down that lovers wasn’t the answer. There was always more to it than that. And it scared him, just like it scared you because neither of you knew what this kind of love was. It was just your way of learning to expand your consciousness.

In order to reunite with the twin soul, both counterparts need to stop blaming each other and accept self. This is what creates the inner peace needed to remerge the soul energies back into One."

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