I met my twinsoul a couple of years ago and she is aware of the connection we share. She pushes me away a lot and has recently become involved with another man. Does this mean that this relationship is cancelling out all the pain of separation she feels with me?

No, I do not think that when a twin goes into another relationship when they sense the connection cancels out everything they go through. Depending on the stage of reunion, twins may go into other relationships for all sorts of reasons. Please note that I do not consider all twins to have the purpose to unite in a "romantic" relationship (but they can if that's part of their path).

In the past, when I didn't know what mine and twin's connection was about, I was "running" from my him by entering other relationships to try and see if i could love another more than him. If I could, then it would be proof that I wasn't doomed for not being able to "get over him". 

Now, when I look back I can see that at the time I tried to use other relationships as a distraction to try and ease the pain caused by the wounds that had been brought to the surface through connecting with twin. That mirror image of myself too much to handle, therefore I looked for love elsewhere to try and forget him. Of course it didn't work though.

You see, we were having other relationships in the stage where we still hadn't really discovered about the twinsoul concept and we were still trying to prove logically (ego based) that what we felt was wrong and that these intuitive feelings were just "silly". We were trying to convince ourselves out of the connection because it went against everything we had been socially conditioned to believe about life (ego and materialistic beliefs about logic and "what you can see is only real" and relationship "rules" that society has thought up which do not coincide with the unconditional love of the twin soul relationship). It was hard to be shaken up and confused like this, so the other relationships were our safety net.

It was all part of our path though. I realised that at that time it was futile to try and love another because I thought I was too "hooked" on him. And I was hooked on him. But it wasn't because I was supposed to be in a romantic relationship with him - it was because he represented the wholenes that I needed to find within myself. Other relationships weren't working because I was looking to them to fill in my voids.

And when the time came that I was healed and had accepted myself for who I am and accepted twin, I had reached the knowing that this wasn't even about romance - it was about soul and coming back to SELF (he is part of self).

But at the time of looking to other relationships to distract ourselves from each other, we LOGICALLY thought that we had hurt each other too much to ever be in each other's lives again. Too much water had gone under the bridge, so we thought. We beleived that we were supposed to "move on" (societal conditioning) instead of work through the problems and let go of ego.

So no, I do not think that when twins embark in other relationships it is because they don't feel the connection or the difficult feelings of their Awakening - it is part of their own discovery and awakening ON ALL LEVELS as their mind's earthly conditioning and bodies catch up to their souls.

These relationships with others are a necessary part of their Awakening. Do not worry for this is all part of the plan.